Dr. Loren Ekroth Explores Human Signal Loss
“Too much time with your smartphone may lead to poor conversational skills.” (So wrote Shalini Misra, psychology professor at Virginia Tech …)
…Distracted by their phones, [people] tend to miss subtle cues such as changes in facial expression.
How about pairs of conversers? Dr. Misra’s study found that many visitors to a café sitting in pairs or small groups checked their phone every three to five minutes. (How is a serious conversation possible?) For learning social skills, you must be able to read the feedback of the sender.
A different study concluded that, on average, teenage girls checked their Facebook accounts roughly 100 times each day.
How about plain old phone messaging, aka “audio time?” Here’s a complaint I have heard from mothers describing messages from their daughters living away from home: “Mom, if you want to communicate with me, don’t phone. Text me.” Missing is the emotional quality of a young adults voice that can be decoded by the mother.
What is required for complete communication between persons is face to face interaction. That provides for “full duplex” communication where sender and receiver can both send messages at the same time. Both communicate, one with words and nonverbal signals, the other only with nonverbal signals.
You develop self-confidence by learning social skills, and to do that, you must be able to read the feedback of the sender. With text messaging and Twittering, meanings can be vague or ambiguous, like old-fashioned telegrams. “What are you doing later?” or “I’m not feeling well,” for example, are vague.
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